Being in a relationship is one of the greatest feelings in the world. Nothing is sweeter than knowing
you have someone to share your life with including your experiences, day to day activities, achievements, and even downfall. Unfortunately for some, not all relationships are meant to last. One of the most common reasons why couples end the relationship is cheating.
Assuring a man’s loyalty and faithfulness can be difficult to achieve these days. Several temptations can be found in school, at work, or even among a circle of friends which can lead to infidelity. But before you assume anything and confront your man about it, here are 5 signs that will tell you are not the only one in his life.
1. Woman’s Instinct
Often associated with paranoia, a woman’s instinct is very powerful in knowing whether your partner is cheating on you or not. When your gut feel tells you that he might be seeing someone else, then there is a possibility that he really is.
As what they always say, you don’t want to mess with a woman’s instinct.
2. Now You See Him, Now You Don’t
When you became a couple, routines are established. One day, those routines are gone.
He now leaves early in the office, he spends more time with his ‘friends’ instead of going out on your usual date night, he attends all sorts of ‘occasions’ involving officemates and he gives thousands of excuses just to get out of the house.
3. Less Intimacy and Affection
Part of having a relationship is being intimate with your partner. Holding hands, kissing, and having sex is normal for couples.
But when he started showing signs that he’s no longer interested even in cuddling or he’s not in the mood to do it with you and come up with reasons just to get away with it, then something is going on.
And he’s already getting some action from other women aside from you.
4. He’s Being Secretive
He used to leave his mobile phone anywhere in the house. Now, he’s bringing it everywhere he goes. And when you’re able to get access to his phone, you noticed that there are no saved messages. He even changed his passwords in the social networking sites he belongs to, which you can freely check before. If that’s the case, chances are he’s cheating on you.
In this modern age, technology has become a powerful tool when it comes to infidelity.
5. Change of Habits
Since you’ve been together for quite some time, there is a tendency to feel comfortable with each other. He might not even get a haircut or shave his beard for months and does not even dress nicely when you are out on a date. Then all of a sudden, habits change.
You noticed new clothes or new cologne and started to care more about the way he looks. He even starts to work out to keep him fit and has “improved” personal hygiene.
Aside from the signs mentioned above and your gut feel tells you that he is doing something behind your back, get out of the relationship as early as now. Don’t tolerate that kind of behavior because you don’t deserve to be treated that way. A relationship is about love, care, respect, and trust and if he can’t give that to you, then he doesn’t deserve you.